Whether two people have been together for years, or whether they are just getting together, they are constantly learning new things about one another. Be it small quirks they do, like something they do when they eat or drink, or maybe the way they sleep during certain situations.
Learning is one thing that is most important when in a relationship. The more one learns about the other person, the stronger a relationship can become.
What is the point of being with a person and growing old with them if one is not willing to get to know them a little better?
There comes a time in everyone’s relationship, however, when things can start to get a little stale. This is when one person in the relationship might feel the urge to want to snap and tell the other person how they truly feel.
Now, this may sound like an amazing idea at the time, but to be honest, it only adds unnecessary drama that could ruin everything. No one wants to hear bad news from the person they love, especially when it is about how stale and boring the relationship has gotten or how the other person isn’t happy anymore.
Remember, everyone reacts differently when it comes to certain accusations and remarks, even if they are true.
With that in mind, here are things you should never say to someone based on their astrological sign.
24 Aries (March 21st to April 19th)
Aries is a sign that tends to have a ‘me first’ kind of attitude. They are competitive and desire one thing: to be on top of the world. Because of this they are constantly looking for competition that will quench their dynamic and speedy nature. Be it at work or in a social setting, they do not care.
That’s because Aries is one of the most active out of all the astrological signs. They possess a take-action nature and like to jump headfirst into projects and situations without a second thought or plan.
23 What One Should Never Say To An Aries
Aries are always looking for activities in their lives that will satisfy their need for speed. Well, they tend to do the same things in their relationships.
Aries tend to move super fast when it comes to relationships. Some could say it is from their energetic and speedy nature, while others might say it’s because of their social personality and the amazing ability they have to have a friendly attitude towards almost anyone they meet or run into.
Now, an Aries will always try and make an effort at including his girlfriend in everything he does, especially if he is in love with her. Thing is, if she starts acting like what he likes and what he wants to do doesn’t interested her, then he can become a bit moody.
One thing a woman must never say to the Aries guy is that he is being standoffish. He is known to have a “me first” attitude, thanks to his strong personality, but one thing he is not is stuck-up or unfriendly.
22 Taurus (April 20th to May 20th)
Taurus are known to be practical and well-grounded people. They are the most reliable and stable of all the other astrological signs, along with the most sensual and tactile who consider taste and touch the two most important human senses.
Taurus are always ready to endure what comes at them and they have the strong ability to stick to the choices they make, all the way up until they achieve success or hit the point of personal satisfaction.
One thing that might be considered a flaw to some is that they tend to only want to surround themselves with things that give off a sense of love and beauty. They are the sign that harvests the fruits of labour, so it does kind of make sense.
21 What One Should Never Say To A Taurus
When a Taurus commits himself to one person, he will love that person more than anything else in the world and all he wants in return is to have a long and successful long-term relationship.
The worst thing you can tell him? He doesn’t care. This will insult him greatly! As Taurus Man In Love states, the Taurus boyfriend is sweet and kind.
The Taurus guy might show his affection and love differently then other men, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t care. He takes pride in going the extra mile for the love of his life.
20 Gemini (May 21st to June 20th)
Gemini are known to be super expressive and quick-witted. They represent two different personalities, and boy does that fit them to a T. One can never be too sure which personality they will run into when they bump into a Gemini.
Gemini are fascinated with the world around them and everything it has to offer. They are also extremely curious, and always have this nagging feeling that they will never get to cross everything off their bucket list because there is never enough time to see and experience it all.
19 What One Should Never Say To A Gemini
Most of the time, a male born under the Gemini sign will prefer to have casual hookups over serious relationships. That is, until he finds that special someone he truly loves and wants to spend the rest of his life with.
It can take a bit for a Gemini to open up and be completely his true self with his partner, so the worst thing his girlfriend can tell him is that he’s wasting her time.
Hearing something like that will make him think that he doesn’t deserve love, and that is not something anyone should ever feel in life.
18 Cancer (June 21st to July 22nd)
Cancer are known to be highly intuitive and sentimental people. They are also known to be the most challenging of all the other astrological signs to get to know. Which is weird because they are known to be super loyal, they care deeply about their loved ones and they have the ability to empathize with other people! In fact, they are truly sympathetic people that can become super attached to those they become close to.
17 What One Should Never Say To A Cancer
Cancer is the perfect guy to date. He knows what it takes to make a relationship last and isn’t afraid to put in the work. He has an amazing ability to stay loyal to the one he loves and knows exactly what to do to make her feel good about herself.
Based on this, the worst thing someone can tell the Cancer guy is that he’s cheating on her.
As Livingly reports, another thing to avoid is saying you want space in the relationship. That just makes Cancer feel like you’re calling him “clingy.” All he’s trying to do is show he cares!
16 Leo (July 23rd to August 22nd)
Leo possesses every skill needed to help them be the natural born leaders they were meant to be. They have a great sense of humor that helps them to deal with people.
Because he’s hard to resist (and super-confident!), the Leo guy tends to have a lot of friends. He is very generous and loyal to his loved ones no matter what.
15 What One Should Never Say To A Leo
When it comes to relationships, Leos do not need help. They know exactly what they want in a partner, which is why they’re going to be so adamant about getting what they want out of a relationship.
Leo can seem a bit high-maintenance at times, but truth is, he isn’t being self-centered, he just knows and isn’t afraid to admit that he deserves the best!
Telling him he’s asking you for too much, or that he has too-high relationship expectations, will hurt him.
Yes, he has an individualistic mindset, but he tries very hard to tone that down when he is in a relationship with someone he really cares about. He wants her to always feel appreciated. It just takes him time to get there and think of someone other than himself.
14 Virgo (August 23rd to September 22nd)
Virgos are the type of people that like to pay attention to every small detail. They don’t like to leave things to chance.
They are often known to be one of the signs that are misunderstood a lot. This has nothing to do with a lack of ability when expressing themselves, but more because they refuse to accept their feelings as being valid, true or even relevant when confronted about them.
13 What One Should Never Tell A Virgo
When it comes to being in a relationship, Virgo puts a lot of effort into their relationships to make them worthwhile. They’re “all or nothing.”
Since he’s working so hard on the relationship, the worst thing you can do is criticize your Virgo boyfriend or tell him he’s wrong.
This will make him feel worthless and insecure, and he’ll likely clam up because he’ll take those criticisms to heart.
12 Libra (September 23rd to October 22nd)
Libra are known to be a peaceful bunch. One thing that is very important to them is partnership, especially because they hate to be alone. Libra wants someone that is going to treat them as well as they treat their partners.
Libra is fair and just. He wants a balanced, harmonious relationship that’s as free of conflict as possible. He prefers trying to keep the peace whenever conflict may arise, and will go to great lengths to do so, as Cafe Astrologypoints out.
11 What One Should Never Say To A Libra
Just because he’s avoiding conflict, it doesn’t mean he’s not intelligent. Rest assured, your Libra boyfriend notices things that happen. He just doesn’t want to fight about them. As Astrospeak reports, one of the worst things you can call your Libra boyfriend is “foolish.” People born under the Libra sign have razor-sharp minds and pride themselves on being intelligent, the site adds, which makes this criticism such a low blow!
10 Scorpio (October 23rd to November 21st)
Scorpio are very passionate and assertive people. They are also determined and decisive and will keep researching a topic until they learn everything and find out the truth.
Scorpio is a Water sign, but not like other Water signs when it comes to expressing their emotions. No matter how they choose to express them, one thing they are excellent at is keeping secrets, whatever that secret may be. They’re extremely loyal!
9 What One Should Never Say To A Scorpio
Scorpio has great pride in what he brings to the table when it comes to relationships and he doesn’t care if he gets overly excited about being with someone he loves. He just hopes his partner feels the same.
Now, Scorpios can handle a lot of criticism, but not being called “crazy” or “unreasonable.”
All a Scorpio wants is to be able to find someone who loves him unconditionally and can add as much passion to the relationship as he does.
8 Sagittarius (November 22st to December 21st)
Sagittarius are huge travelers, which is probably due to their curious and energetic nature. Their open minds and philosophical views are what motivate them to want to wander the world trying to search for the meaning of life.
The mind of a Sagittarius is constantly on the go. The good thing about them, though, is that they are able to turn their thoughts into actions and will do anything to make sure their goals are achieved.
7 What One Should Never Say To A Sagittarius
As a Sagittarius, this guy will make friends with everyone he meets, but it will take someone very special to make him fall in love. Sagittarius are flirty, outgoing, energetic and have every quality that makes people gravitate towards them and want to be their friend.
Sagittarius wants to be accepted and loved, but not restrained in the relationship. Freedom is really important to him. As Elite Daily points out, if that freedom is threatened, the Sagittarius will lose interest. So, don’t ask him “Where have you been the last few days?” It will make him feel like a child about to get scolded by his parent or teacher.
6 Capricorn (December 22nd to January 19th)
Capricorn are known as the responsible sign. They cherish a more traditional relationship over one that’s spontaneous and goofy.
They have amazing abilities when it comes to self-control, which make them excellent leaders and able to manage multiple groups of people at any time when needed. They do not make outrageous and impossible plans either. They learn from their mistakes and have an iron will to help them achieve their goals.
5 What One Should Never Say To A Capricorn
Capricorns aren’t looking for a seasonal fling or quick hookup. They want a serious relationship with someone that they love. That is why, one of the worst things to say to a Capricorn man is that he’s being too serious and needs to lighten up.
Capricorn has probably put in a lot of effort in the relationship thus far. He doesn’t want to feel like it’s all gone to waste because you’re on a different page to him.
4 Aquarius (January 20th to February 18th)
Those born under the Aquarius sign are known to be shy and quiet. But get them around people they love and care about and their personality changes. They become energetic and the life of the party!
Now, Aquarius crave to be surrounded with positive energy, but there are times when they will revert to their quiet place and just want to be alone. There isn’t anything wrong though, they just need some peace and quiet to recharge their power.
3 What One Should Never Say To An Aquarius
Aquarius have a hard time opening up and trusting someone, which can make falling in love with someone very difficult. They need time. When the Aquarius guy finds that special someone, he requires them to believe in the same things he does, especially when it comes to values such as honesty. But most of all, he wants a partner who’s unconventional like him.
That’s why the worst thing you can say to the Aquarius man in your life is that his way is wrong or that he’s not going to achieve what he wants to. As Love Devani points out, restriction is what drives Aquarius away.
2 Pisces (February 19th to March 20th)
Out of all the astrological signs, Pisces are known to be the friendliest of the bunch. They are the type of people that love to be surrounded by different people and they are always willing to help out anyone in need thanks to their selfless nature.
Pisces are ruled by the planet Neptune, which makes them very intuitive, along with generous, compassionate, and extremely faithful and loyal.
1 What One Should Never Say To A Pisces
When it comes to being in a relationship, Pisces are ecstatic that they have someone they can appreciate and care about. They are known to have huge romantic hearts!
Now, the Pisces man is going to want to treat his girlfriend exactly how he would want to be treated, which is why he is so selfless with her. There will be times where he will get uncomfortable during differences and disagreements, but he will still try his best to work things out and make the best of things.
That’s why, the worst thing you could call your Pisces boyfriend is selfish. He’s the furthest thing!